Month: July 2014

Don’t Produce Sexual Atheists In Your Church!

When is the last time you preached about SEX?
When is the last time on a SUNDAY morning you shared a whole sermon or series on the beauty, wonder, grace, passion & purity of marital intimacy…. AND …the danger, pain, shame & regret produced by loose living?
What’s that? “NEVER”?
I am not surprised…. saddened, but not surprised.
Here is why I am not surprised.
In a recent survey of CHRISTIAN singles between 18-59, they were asked if they would have sex before marriage.
63%, SIXTY-THREE % said “YES, no Problem with that at all.”
Our SILENCE re SEX has produced a generation of “Sexual Atheists”. Every corner of every nook and cranny of every part of our culture is screaming LIES about sex, and the church is too embarrassed to talk about what GOD created!!
We have the only MESSAGE that can fix this MESS!
Preach GRACE, FORGIVENESS, REPENTANCE and preach the Power of the Cross that Purifies and Sanctifies (makes holy & right-living) .

If you can’t handle this subject, fly me in for a Sunday night!  🙂
Pastor Myles Holmes

50 Shades; NOT about Love OR Sex!

“50 Shades” has nothing whatsoever to do with love and absolutely nothing to do with sex either.
Sex between a husband and wife is beautiful, sweet, gentle, passionate, exciting, hot, soft, wild, sensual, satisfying, pure, incredible, mind-blowing, powerful and wonderful.
These books and movies are about pornography, violence, sadomasochism, control, pain, shame and debauchery. Its success is simply a sign of how wicked and deceived our culture has become, that it cannot even define sex anymore.
As I said in my message on Sunday on the Song of Solomon, I cannot pretend to be an expert on the subject of sex, but I can speak with such authority, because I am MARRIED to one!  🙂
And of course, my highest authority is the Word of GOD! Pastor Myles Holmes

Video Message: SONG OF SOLOMON: A Sizzling Sexual and Spiritually Satisfying MARRIAGE;

VIDEO Message from REVIVE… Humor & a Hot & Holy Word to this generation!

“The SONG OF SOLOMON: A Sizzling Sexual and Spiritually Satisfying MARRIAGE; The High & Holy Calling for Husbands & Wives to Represent the Love of Christ to Each Other & the World!”


SEX; You can’t die from lack of it!

(From this morning’s message)

At no other time in history has there been more availability of temptation, never has there been a more overwhelming flooding of society – culture, plays, media, movies, books, comics, music, Internet, television and radio- FLOODED with depravity, immorality and casual sex. It is all a joke and sex has no value meaning or purpose! These are days of temptation and sin is as quick and as close as a click of your mouse.

Let me make something clear. Those who sin in this area have no excuse and there is no justification.

 In years of ministry I’ve talked with many  men who want to excuse themselves because “My wife wasn’t meeting my needs. I had to go elsewhere, I had to have an affair, what’s a Man to do?”

First of all, a bit of truth and logic. No man has ever died from lack of sex.

You can die from lack of sleep.

You can die from lack of food.

You can die from lack of water.

You can die from lack of shelter.

You can die from falling off the side of a mountain.

You can die by falling into a barrel of acid.

You can die of old age.

But in the thousands of years of recorded human history, there has never been a human being who has died from lack of sex. It doesn’t happen, so man up.

Secondly, your lack of affection is no justification for taking what is not yours. No judge will let you off from robbing a bank, because you had run out of funds. “I lost my job, I HAD to rob the corners store!”

 If your car breaks down, you can’t just go steal someone else’s. “I had to, I had no transportation!”

If your marriage breaks down, you can’t just go steal someone else’s daughter, someone else’s sister, someone else’s wife. It’s wrong, it’s sin, and there’s no justification.

Thirdly, if it is true that you’re not getting any affection at home, FIX the PROBLEM! Pursue your wife again, win her heart again, romance her, go after her, date her, court her, write her a love poem, sing to her, make her laugh again, LOVE HER, MAN!!  There is nothing impossible with God, therefore your marriage is not impossible to redeem, restore and recover.

Now ladies, this is not new information for you to use at home when you have a headache… “The pastor said, you’re not gonna die!”

Happy, Holy, Fun, Sizzling-Hot Marriage?


Wonder what GOD has to say about a happy, holy, fun, sizzling-hot marriage? Ever wonder why movies, books, TV, music, plays, everywhere and anywhere they talk about SEX, but church is SILENT about what GOD created for human enjoyment in marriage?
We are going to tell you the beautiful truth at REVIVE

Join us this Sunday at REVIVE for THE SONG OF SOLOMON!

Join us Live at REVIVE at 10:45am.
1105 Belt Line Road, Collinsville, IL
(only 12 miles east of the St. Louis Arch)
…a gift for every first-time guest…
it really is worth the drive, to come alive at REVIVE


Read the Song of Solomon, Get Ready for Sunday!

JOY VERNING will be speaking this evening at REVIVE at 7pm. Join us for dynamic worship with Meagan Martin and the REVIVE Worship Band, then dig into the riches of GOD’s Wonderful Word.

Pastor Holmes will be returning from vacation tomorrow and will be in the office Thursday and Friday.

Your homework for Sunday… read the Song of Solomon, married couples read it TOGETHER.
Our Journey thru the Word this Sunday morning brings us to “The SONG OF SOLOMON: A Sizzling Sexual and Spiritually Satisfying MARRIAGE; The High & Holy Calling for Husbands & Wives to Represent the Love of Christ to Each Other & the World!”

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